Nursery

     Choosing a nursery for you child is especially hard when its compulsory, instead of giving you a bit of spare time to be a lady of leisure. At the time i chose a nursery for Nia-Mae and Niel i was working for a local magazine and also studying. I had to find a nursery that had long opening hours and flexibility, along with a great educational and inspiring environment. These are some of my tips for finding the right care for your child.

     Firstly,plan the time in your child's life you would feel most comfortable leaving them in the care of someone else. Don't go back on this or feel pressured by life you will only have regrets.

     Second, start talking to parents who already have children in nursery or even school and ask questions, be nosey.

     Third, take a mental note and start writing a list of the places other parents seemed to like and then go online and do your background research. Find out whether they are ofsted registered. How long they have been open, and the ratio of carer to child.

     Fourth, call the nursery's and make appointments to go and visit with your child. Do not ever give a specific time just a day. You want to see the nursery in full flow of its every day goings on. Don't give them time to change or organise things to your liking.

     Fifth, pay attention to your child, watch reactions and ask every question relating to your child's needs. If you don't this will only lead to you worrying, and sometimes to your child not settling well.

     When you have found a suitable nursery, make regular visits to the nursery and attend all morning activities and play groups so your child begins to feel familiar with the surroundings!